March 25, 2026
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When You’re the Default Parent (And Still Grateful)
Some roles in life arrive with a title. Others unfold quietly. Somewhere between packing lunches, answering school emails, and noticing the subtle shift in a thirteen-year-old’s tone, I became what people often call the “default parent.” Not because we decided it formally. Not because I carry everything alone. But because over time, I became the...
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Helping Teens Thrive, Working Parent Wisdom
March 18, 2026
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I Don’t Always Say Things, But I Think a Lot
Sometimes people think I’m quiet. I’m not quiet. I’m just… thinking. My Brain Is Busy When you see a cloud, you see a cloud. When I see a cloud, I see a dragon eating marshmallows. When you see a worm, you see dirt. I see “Sir Wiggles the Third.” My brain is always making stories. It’s kind of loud in there. Just...
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Building Resilience, Helping Teens Thrive
March 11, 2026
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The Chore Race: We Made Laundry a Game
When Laundry Felt Never-Ending Laundry used to feel like the one chore that never actually ended. Every time we emptied the basket, more clothes somehow appeared. A sock under the bed. A hoodie in a gym bag. A towel we forgot about. It wasn’t hard. It was just always there. Since we’re in 7th grade, our days are already...
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Family Life & Experiences, Helping Teens Thrive
March 4, 2026
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When I Say I’m Fine, Here’s What I Mean
It’s My Default Answer People ask how I’m doing almost every day. A friend will ask between classes, a teacher will pause before starting a lesson, and Mama will check in while she’s cooking dinner. Most of the time, I smile and say, “I’m fine.” It’s not a lie. But it’s not the full picture either. What I really mean is that I’m handling what’s in front of me,...
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Building Resilience, Helping Teens Thrive
July 16, 2025
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What We’ve Learned About Listening (After Years of Not)
Still twins. Slightly better communicators. Mello: Let’s be honest—just because we’ve known each other our entire lives doesn’t mean we’ve always known how to hear each other. Or anyone else, really. Marsh: Listening is a whole skill set. It’s not the “sit silently while you zone out” thing teachers talk about. It’s way messier. It took us a long time (and...
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Author / HerShe S'mores

What Happens When You Stop Performing and Start Expressing?

by HerShe S'mores

There’s this thing that happens when you’re “the talented one.” You get really good at knowing what people want from you. You learn how to hit all the right notes — in music, in school, in life — so everyone claps. And you start performing. All the time. Even when no one’s watching. I started playing violin when I...

Helping Teens Thrive

What It’s Like Being the Oldest Sibling in a Supercharged Family

by HerShe S'mores

I love my family.But sometimes it feels like living inside a group project with no deadlines, constant dance breaks, and at least one glitter explosion per week. Being the oldest sibling in a high-energy, high-functioning, let’s-invent-a-new-calendar-for-chores kind of household? It’s a whole experience. Here’s what it’s really like. 1. You’re the “Mini-Parent” Even If No...

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